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pixie

Good Evening

What a day. Very busy today.

1st day back to school for my son and first day officially employed for my daughter.

All went well for both.

Phew what a day of 1st's.
barbsy

hi pixie, pleased to hear their first days both went well, i am really pleased for them both. jon went back today he does a split placement between mainstream and special school. so he has to settle in both places but so far its been good.

hope you have a nice evening, and hope everyones children settled back well today.

love barbs
Speeds

Good news fro you both.

Thomas fell asleep at 5pm - bless. Had to wake him up for tea though but he was in bed by 18.45!
pixie

I love it when they drop off anywhere. They look so cute curled up on the floor half way between rooms or some other such strange place.
Rabid

pixie wrote:
I love it when they drop off anywhere.



I think I could drop anywhere most of the time TBH

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pixie

Good evening to you all. I hope the day has been good to you all and that you get time to chill a bit this evening.
Rabid

What a day! when does it get easier?

barbsy

just popping in to say hi to you all. hectic day today and not over yet lol

hope you all have a nice evening.


barbs
pixie

Good evening. A very busy day today. Just housework and boring things like that.

Hoping for a nice quiet evening.

Hope you've all had a good day.
pixie

Good evening.

I hope you've all had a good day.

The suns shinning here now. I wish I'd done some washing now, it's lovely out there.
barbsy

hi all. sorry i didnt get on to say hi this morning.hope everyone is well.ive got a horrible cold and feel awful.cant shake this off.nevermind thankfully the little man is better now. suns out here right now,deserve it after this rain wasnt it bad today.

barbs
pixie

I hope you feel better soon Barbsy. I'm glad Jon is feeling better though. I hate it when the kids are ill even more than when I'm ill.

A big hug for you ((()))
Speeds

Get Well soon Barbs.

Happy Evening everyone. Just got in fromt he school disco - am totally shattered. DJ had me as one of the mums doing oops upside yer head - I was leading the girls but we sorta do things a bit manic so now my feet are killing me

Am just about to have tea. Thomas has just gone to bed.
pixie

That sounds like a good disco. Was it for Halloween or something else?

Ours has a Halloween disco coming up on 31st so he's looking forward to that. He has his costume all ready. Real scary it is too.

I'll see if I can find a photo from when he last wore it.

I bet you'll sleep well tonight Speeds.
pixie

Here it is. Scary or what.

barbsy

wow looks brilliant. very scary.

barbs
Speeds

Wow I am scared and was going ot bed but I am quaking in my shoes now

Our school holds a disco each term. The kids love it from the 4 year olds in Reception to the 11 year olds in Year 6.

We charge £2 to get in and they get a fruit shoot type drink, a packet of crisps and a cake with a Smartie on top.

We try to avoid the Festivals like Halloween and Valentines so we have them earlier in the terms. We sometimes do fancy dress but often it is just a chance for the kids to have a good evening. Parents are allwoed and encouraged to stay and if they want dance with the kids which most of the kids love (so long as it is not your mum dancing )

I hope your son has a fab Halloween Disco. I cannnot believe it is 1.5 weeks until half term - that is so so scary in itself.
Rabid

pixie wrote:
Here it is. Scary or what.



I look like that without a mask


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pixie

Good evening everyone.

I hope you all have a peaceful evening without too many scary people knocking at your doors.
barbsy

i hope nobody knocks, its bad enough having a scary person in the house nevermind having more outside.

barbs
pixie

Speeds

Evening All

What a giggle. My mate Hollie drove all the way from Andover to mine to avoid treat or treaters as her dog (a weim too) would go mad. I NEVER get trick or treaters USUALLY but tonight we had two sets

Anyway - dogs were good and loved the fuss
pixie

None for us this year again. I'm glad really but now we have sweets to eat.
Speeds

Only just really got on the puter at 7 ish.

Last night THomas stayed at his Nannys so we had a restful evening and sleep with no early rising

Dom had a bath (yes a big event in this house) which takes us nearly two hours.

We then went out to buy some bits and pieces for the new car - like protectors etc against wheelchair stratches. We were very norty and had a cheeseburger for lunch.

Then it was off to Nannys for the afternoon and an earlyish dinner and then back home.

Not as busy but sort of busy

Hope that you have all had lovely days
pixie

It would be good to see some photos of the new car if you get a chance. I just love Merc's.

Not too busy here except for hubby doing all those eBay listings with our young man's toys.

The usual for me with washing, bathing the young man (also very rare, but because he hates it he's in and out in a flash) and other boring general housework.

Daughter came home about 6 and is now in bed ready for work tomorrow.

We are still eating all the sweets.
Speeds

Hi Pixie

I have a Merc which is a 2001 model estate but our newbie car is a BMW 320d Msport coupe - in Titanium Silver - very lovely.

I will take some photos and show you all.
pixie

Sorry I must have Merc's on the brain.

I'd still love to see some photos but only if you get a chance.
Speeds

pixie wrote:
Sorry I must have Merc's on the brain.

I'd still love to see some photos but only if you get a chance.


No I have been talking about the two probably quite interchangeably

I have two beamers now and the Merc cart horse estate



I will have to take some decent pictures of all of them
pixie

Good evening. My it has been a busy day today....

My son is still not home as he's gone to see Joseph in Preston with school. The house seems very quiet without him here.

I hope everyone has had a good day.
Rabid

Hi all

Hope everyone is doing OK.

Take care all.

pixie

Off to bed soon, it's been a tiring day and very busy.

Is it the weekend yet?

I hope you all get a good nights rest and feel refreshed in the morning. xx
Speeds

I am on MSN putting world to right.

Sleep tight
xx
Rabid

Evenin all.
Still a tad chaotic here - ah, when does it get easier?

anyways, hope everyone is OK.



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Rabid

Hi all.
Just a quick Hiya

<phew> what a day.

onwards and upwards though eh?

take it easy everyone.

Speeds

Good Evening all from the Hues
Our day is done, we've watched the news
But still there's housework lurking there
Before I retire with you I share
That my daft brain cell (yes I do have two)
Told me to change our bed clothes (boo hoo)
So now I'm mustering up the strength
To go and with the duvet, vent
So I'll bid you all good night from me
Leaving you laughing hee hee hee
barbsy

wow i cant compete with that, so i will just bid you goodnight !

barbs x
Rabid

Speeds wrote:
Good Evening all from the Hues
Our day is done, we've watched the news


A Cool evening poem

Nice one.

I hope the duvet didnt put up too much of a fight

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Rabid

Evnin' all

Hope everyone is doing OK

Its gonna be cold tommorow so wrap up warm.

I feel chilly just thinking about it

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pixie

I've missed all the quick chat slots today.

It's been busy and quite stressed too.

Off to bed soon in the hope that tomorrow will be a better day.

Sleep well all. xx
Rabid

Hi all

Hope everyone is well.

Been into town today and boy was it cold


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barbsy

does seem colder although we havent been out the door apart to get doctors prescriptions yesterday, im getting really fed up with these colds.

hope everyone is well, have you all done your shopping for christmas now

barbs
Rabid

barbsy wrote:
does seem colder although we havent been out the door apart to get doctors prescriptions yesterday, im getting really fed up with these colds.




I hope you feel better soon, its aweful being ill

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barbsy

thanks for that. barbs
barbsy

just popping in to say good evening to you all. such a noisy and disturbing night with the wind howling around outside last night. plus poor little man is quite poorly again so we had the doctor.seems to be one thing after another with him.

hoping everyone is well, and pixie hope your sons had a good week back at school

barbsx
pixie

Sorry to hear Jon is not well again Barbsy. I hope the GP managed to get to the bottom of what's wrong and give some meds or at least advice to help him get better soon.

I am again letter writing this weekend as it all went wrong at school again today. My lad was so upset he wanted to come home but they wouldn't let him and even seemed to be angry with him!!

I'm not sure if he will be going back next week yet.

At least it's the weekend so maybe some chill time for us all.

Give Jon a hug from me. ((()))
barbsy

pixie im sorry to hear your son has problems with school again, the week started on such a positive note for him. it doesnt make sense that they should be angry with him, oh i do hope you will get all this sorted out i do feel for him.

jons perked up slightly, well to the point that hes talking,much not doing much more than just laying down.temperatures under control now thankfully.he has always been poorly quite often seems to pick everything up going.he supposed to be going into hospital end of the week for some sleep tests but i dont think he will be able to now.

oh well, always something to worry about isnt there.

hoping your weekend will be ok.  take care barbs
Rabid

barbsy wrote:
poor little man is quite poorly again so we had the doctor.seems to be one thing after another with him.



Sorry to hear that  

I really hope he is better soon.

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Speeds

Sorry to hear that such a promising week has turned out not so good for some of you.

Get Well Soon Jon

And Pixie - why oh why will the school not just call you so that you can talk t your little man - what could be so difficult to do that.  I feel for you guys.
Rabid

Evenin all.

Hope you have all had a good day.

Speeds

Good Evening all, I know its late
But I have time to post, while I wait
For my photos to upload to disk
I took so many, so as not to risk
Not having any good ones to share
Of our Christmas celebrations here

I've skimmed the topics
Sorry, some half read
It seems some have had a time of dread
Not all so happy, like I was able
Not all had such fun around the table

Some members new seem very upset
I hope you can use all the help and advice you will get
None of us can live "OUR" life
But we can share our experiences, like sharing a knife
To pare away our good and bad events
To share with each other, our feelings we vent

Now I have made this poem so sad
Now I have made myself feel mad
But what I wanted to drop in and say
Was I missed you all while I was away

And although I had a time of cheer
I really did miss my friends on here

Good night everyone, sleep tight sweet dreams
Tomorrow, I hope a new day will gleam

XX
pixie

Aww Speeds we missed you too but I'm happy that you all had a great Christmas.

Sleep well, speak to you soon. xx
Rabid

Evenin all.

Hope everyone is OK

Its gonna be cold tommorow apparently so wrap up warm.

Its gonna be cold
So dont be bold.
Wear lots of stuff
Dont go out in the buff
or you'll get wind in the willows
so stay warm with your pillows
my poem is poo
its the best I can do





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Speeds

Rabid wrote:
Evenin all.

Hope everyone is OK

Its gonna be cold tommorow apparently so wrap up warm.

Its gonna be cold
So dont be bold.
Wear lots of stuff
Dont go out in the buff
or you'll get wind in the willows
so stay warm with your pillows
my poem is poo
its the best I can do





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You've made my day
Writing in this way
The smile on my face
Is fixed in place
While I type this ditty
Which too is so s****y (it rhymes!!)
But who cares
On this forum that shares
That our poetry is crap
I don't care about that
This forum is for sharing
With those who are caring
And anything we all do
To cheer up the blues
Is fine by me
If we bring smiles and harmony

angel28

its been snowing here today!

ive got that gastric virus thats going round...

and i have had some success today in applying to have a drive put in at my house! I couldnt believe how easy it was? Im getting a grant to cover the costs..

Hugs
Marion x
Speeds

Good Evening all from the house cook here
Marion's news has made me cheer
So while the sausages and mash are all a cook
I thought I'd post a little book
Of rhyme to say Good Evening one and all
Hope there have been no problems, big or small
Speeds

Good Evening All, hubby's out to play
Something about a Christmas meal today
He came back home
To change his clothes
and now he's gone
back out in those

Today we were very busy
I had 4 kids to entertain
Plus the two dogs as well
I hope weight I lost not gained

We played some good games
Then went out to the woods
The had a pizza for lunch
Pizza is such good sharing food

Then we went to meet their mum
And hand them back to her
Before we did some shopping
And still forgot what was needed - derrr

So now me and the bean
are busy bees
wrapping party gifts
for tomorrow's bowling show

My little spoilt boy
has another birthday do
A bowling party
At Bracknell Bowl with friends from years 1 and 2

Today we bought a cake
An another coz it was too small
Because he chose a football one
One of a football

So wish me well tomorrow
with 20 screaming kids
Because by tomorrow night
I may have flipped my lid  

So have a pleasant evening
One and all on here
I hope your day has been good
And there was nothing of it to fear
pixie

Happy birthday to Thomas.

I hope he has a lovely day and that you enjoy it all too. Sounds like fun.

If you get a chance for a photo or two it would be great to see Thomas having fun.


Rabid

Speeds wrote:

My little spoilt boy
has another birthday do
A bowling party
At Bracknell Bowl with friends from years 1 and 2

Today we bought a cake
An another coz it was too small
Because he chose a football one
One of a football

So wish me well tomorrow
with 20 screaming kids
Because by tomorrow night
I may have flipped my lid  


Birthday? cool. Have a great one  

Huge Birthday Wishes.

Have a great day.


Speeds

This is his second birthday party!!!

His birthday was 22-Dec when he was 7.

This is a party for his school friends so that it was not all a mad rush before Christmas and he has something to look forward to once all the hub of Christmas has past!

I will post some photos
pixie

So did we all miss Thomas's birthday? I can't see it on the Occasions forum.

Sorry we missed it, poor Thomas.

I really will try and get a calendar sorted out on here soon so that we can not miss birthdays in future.
Rabid

Evening all

Tis windy outside
Best stay in and hide.
Log onto the net,
Thats the best bet.
But dont do a runner
coz soon it'll be summer!

Well thats me done,
this poetry's fun.
Though difficult to rhyme
each and every time.
Now gotta run,
lots to be done.


Have a good evening everyone  

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Rabid

Evening all  

Hope you are all doing OK

Its forcast to be real windy and 'orrible so take care.

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Speeds

Rabid wrote:
Evening all

Tis windy outside
Best stay in and hide.
Log onto the net,
Thats the best bet.
But dont do a runner
coz soon it'll be summer!

Well thats me done,
this poetry's fun.
Though difficult to rhyme
each and every time.
Now gotta run,
lots to be done.


Have a good evening everyone  

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Rabid that's cool
Your poetry's on the ball
Yes it's a difficult line
to rhyme all the time

But whatever you write
With the words you will fight
So by writing in rhyme
You'll be stretching the mind

I should really post here
All my school reports dear
"She should try better
With her letter"
Is all that you'll hear

I hated our language
Still do if the truth only knows
But at least with some poetry
I am working on prose

Tis only some fun
To write out some rhyme
It passes the day
Coz it does take more time

So back to my work
I must now surely go
On this forum I shirk
From writing reports - hey ho

This is an early good night
But I wish it to everyone
Sleep tight
After having evening fun!
angel28

season of good will is through,
but that doesnt mean an excuse for you,
to forget kindness and good spirit
even if for you, there's nothing in it!

So carry out your resolutions
and find your solutions
and will power to succeed
at your promises indeed

I wish I could think of more
to write here without being a bore
it may sound cliche and corny
but its not that bad for someone like me..

So let me know, how Im doing
I think it would be better if I sing,
but then you would have to come along
to the event I arranged all along.

So here's hoping you will be interested
in the event I have to get you tempted
A social event for all in the Surrey
at Mytchett organised by me!

So do get in touch and ask if you dare,
to know of the social event if you want to be there!
Speeds

I love the poem, well done you
Now you've written one, make it two

The event sounds fun
Can I join in?
Are we waiting for the sun?
Will there be things to win?

I am up for a challenge too
Whatever that might be
So let me know, if I can help
And hubby too.........maybe
angel28

Venue Mychett community centre,
arrangements being made soon,
and a karaoke competition to enter,
and some dancing to be doin

Ive yet to know how many people want to go
Its free entry and cheap drinks too,
so if you are interested let me know,
it will be a saturday do

A regular thing
once a month only
to dance and sing
so no more need to be lonely

Im clever you see
to have arranged all this for free
its so easy for me
I have a sister who hosts karaoke

The venue I have managed to get for nothing,
so please come along drink, dance and sing,
whether you are young or old
get yourself there or be told

for one thing is sure
you will miss out on more
with the everyone dancing
and some people singing

         
Speeds

You clever chick
You are not thick
To get this arranged for free
With a sis who is slick
With a karoke fix
I'll be up singing there - yes me!

So let me know
The date and time
I'd love to come and sing
But do take care
Make sure you wear
Ear muffs on your wings
angel28

Had to have my wings unclipped
to ensure Im still hip
will let you know as soon as I do
all about when and where to go to.
Speeds

Evening All - said speeds to her mates
On this fine forum, one with high rates
The weekend's here
So have a beer
pixie

Good evening to you too Speeds.

Glad to read that you girls got together this morning and it was fun.

Did you have a cuppa for me too?

I might break open a bottle later but not beer, yuk.

Have a great weekend. xx
Speeds

We had a hot choc and a bacon buttie

I am not drinking beer but coke - poetic license ........see
pixie

     
angel28

Good evening to all of you,
Im so glad today is through,
the children are thriving
while Im still surviving
the curse of this dreaded bug
so who's here to give me a hug??????

Went round to my mum and Dad's today
Of my meeting with Karen I had much to say,
I couldnt keep up the conversation long
because my sore throat wouldnt let me carry on,

We had a lovely roast beef to eat,
and afterwards the kids got a treat,
they watched the wizard of Oz on Dvd
and upstairs for a lie down for me..

xxx      
Speeds

Evening all, I must work work work
These reports now haunt me
I must not another evening shirk
Or I wont get my report fee
pixie

Here have a big hug from me. I hope you feel much better soon. xx



angel28

aaaw thankyou..... please please someone get me a box of tissues im watching phantom of the opera on ch4 - i love it so much and patrick wilson is to die for!!!!!          
Speeds



Wow I can hug you too Marion thanks to Pixie - get well soon - have not managed to find a virtual tissue though  
Speeds

Not quite right but here

Speeds

Good evening all
I am so tired
I worked so hard
So was not fired
But now all I do
Is yawn away
I had planned t do so much today

I have just downloaded
Some knitting patterns
Very pretty to make
Let's see if they happen

Tomorrow I have
To work some more
Coz next week
I'm knocking on Belfast's door

I hope everyone has had special days
Sleep well my friends, pray to stop the rain.
Rabid

Evening all.

Hope everyone is OK with all the rain - it seems never ending

Stay dry and lets hope we get some sunshine  


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pixie

Good evening to you all.

It's the first chance I've had to get on here today so I hope I haven't missed the birthday celebrations.

It's been so busy here with things to do that I didn't expect.

I hope everyone has had a good day.
angel28

Thank you for the advice.... Yes Im just starting to celebrate !!!! so where is everyone????? drinks are on me!!!!

       
Rabid

angel28 wrote:
drinks are on me!!!!


I'll drink to that  
But I only drink coffee

coffee

cheerz  

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barbsy

just looking into see how everybody is.

has been a party, i always miss out, happy birthday.


hope everyone is well and enjoying the weekend. bit hectic here today.


barbs
Speeds

Evening All

Sorry I did not make it last night - had some not so good news.
pixie

Sorry to hear that Speeds, you know where I am if you need to chat. xx
Rabid

pixie wrote:
Sorry to hear that Speeds, you know where I am if you need to chat. xx


Ditto from me too.

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Speeds

Thanks Pixie and Rabid.

Nothing sort of unexpected but my uncle who has cancer in several places has been told there is no more treatment.  My Auntie is of course beside herself that they have "sent him home to die".  He is my Dad's twin brother (my dad died in 1985) and he was 78 last year.  Obviously I am upset although working in the field I am more aware of cancer than my Auntie.  So last night I just felt a bit drained as I had spent time talking to my Auntie and trying to understand everything the doctors had said.  Trouble is too is that she is telling me things which are like a needle in a haystack as she does not know the answers.

I have been trying ot do some research tonight but not knowing all the relevant details makes that difficult.  I will be speaking to her on Monday after she has spoken to the hospital again.
pixie

That must be very difficult for all of you and I do feel for you very much.

Don't try to take on too much yourself. ie the research, you will wear yourself out and not be able to support your Aunty as much as you would like.

I'm sure your best way forward is to be there for her and your Uncle so that they have someone to lean on at a time that will be very hard for them both and for you too.

Maybe when she has talked to the consultant things will become clearer and then you could look into it further if you wanted to and felt the need to.

Stay strong Speeds. xx
barbsy

just wanted to say i am so sorry your having such a sad time at the moment, im sure you will be a wonderful support to your aunt and uncle.

remember you have to look after yourself too.

love barbsx
angel28

Hi everyone Im sorry Ive not been around Ive been busy celebrating my birthday I havent had time to pop in till now! It was a great day and evenig - But Im sorry to hear of your sad news speed. Just know you are in my thoughts and prayers..

   
pixie

Good evening everyone.

Not much time today to pop in. I hope everyone's well and having good days.

Have a nice evening. xx
barbsy

just looking in to say good evening to you all. i took the children to a zoo park today and it was really lovely. the first time ive managed to take them out on a full day on our own, had one little moment but nothing i couldnt cope with so i was well pleased.pretty tiring ive walked my feet off today. hoping everyone has managed the weekend, all back to normal tomorrow with school argh...

barbs
pixie

A good evening from me too. I'm a little behind with everything as usual.

I'm so pleased that you all had a good day at the zoo Barbsy and I hope the weather was good too.

I hope everyone has had a good day today and that tomorrow is good as well. xx
pixie

Sorry I missed the morning hello.

It's been a busy day as always.

I have to pop into the police station tomorrow to make a statement about harassment our lad is still getting from the bully. It's via the internet but I have now made a formal complaint.

I don't think anything will come of it but here's hoping.

Have a good evening everyone. xx
Speeds

Evening All - will they go?
When you drop in to tell of your woe
Or is that too un PC to say
Now we have to behave in a PC way

But seriously Pixie, I am sorry to hear
That the bully is using the internet to fear
I am sorry for your son, for one so young
To be harrassed and bullied by another young gun

I hope that plod will do their bit
And get hold of the nasty little s**t
And bully him or make him see
That he has no right to bully he

Your son, so special, deserves much more
Than to be hated and taunted by this little bore
I hope its sorted and had to say
This all in poem, to you, in my special way

For everyone else here on this room
I hope you are well and we'll speak real soon
barbsy

hello all, sorry i havent popped in for a few days. pixie i am so sorry to hear your son is having these problems, what is it with these horrible bullies what do they want, i do hope you get this sorted out i really do.

take care, barbs
barbsy

sorry i havent been on for a few days. we were away and now being half term i expect everyone is busy. hope you are all well.

barbs
pixie

Good evening Barbs. I hope you had a good time away.

We've had our half term last week but still busy with our young man at home 24/7 these days.

I hope you have a good half term.
Speeds

Been away
On holiday
But am back today

Tomorrow is for goodbye
To my uncle, I know I'll cry

Good evening everyone - hope you are all well and speak soon on here

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